Pilihan yang tepat buat sang kekasih

Untuk Adam andai mahu mencari Hawa...

1). Jangan dilihat pada purdah mahupun tudung semata-mata kerana Hawa hari ini tidak lagi seperti dulu. Lihatlah pada telapak tanganya andai mudah telapak lembut itu hinggap pada kulit lelaki lain tanpa lapik, fikir lah semasaknya untuk menyuntingnya. Sesungguhnya memegang bulu anjing itu lebih baik dari menyentuh kulit lelaki atau wanita yang bukan mahram.

2). Jangan dilihat pada baju labuh mahupun jubahnya semata-mata. Lihatlah pada sebujur bibirnya andai kata-katanya berbisa dan mudah bermanja-manja dengan lelaki yang bukan mahram atau kuat suaranya, fikirlah semasaknya andai hati masih teringin menyuntingnya khuatir kelak dia membawa fitnah buat si suami, menabur buruk diri si suami.

3). Jangan dilihat pada cantik ayu wajahnya semata-mata. Lihatlah pada sepasang mata indah miliknya andai tidak redup menunduk pandangan, fikirlah semasaknya andai ingin terus menyunting dirinya khuatir bila sudah bersuami matanya masih terus meliar memandang segak rupa lelaki lain yang bukan bernama suami.

Dan untuk Hawa anda mahu menerima cinta Adam...

1). Jangan dilihat pada kereta mewahnya semata-mata. Lihatlah pada aktiviti malamnya andai liar hidupnya tika malam menjelma, fikirlah sebaiknya andai mahu menerima kerana maksiat itu lebih mudah tatkala kelam malam sudah tiba khuatir subuhnya terus leka dibuai mimpi nan indah

2). Janganlah dilihat pada pakaian berjenama semata-mata. Lihatlah pada bahagian kakinya andai mudah lutunya ditayangkan tatkala lincah di padang bola, fikirlah sebaiknya andai masih mahu menerima kerana aurat suami itu hanya selayaknya dilihat oleh si isteri

3). Jangan dilihat pada tampan paras semata-mata. lihatlah pada mulutnya tatkala berbicara andai dia mudah menghambur carutan dan sumpah seranah, fikirlah sebaiknya andai masih tegar memillihnya khuatir apabila bersama kelak kesalahan kecil anda akan menerrima hamburan cacian yang menyeksakan

Ganjaran Untuk Isteri Yang Solehah

a). Sekali suami minum air yang disediakan isterinya adalah lebih baik dari berpuasa setahun.

b). Makanan yang disediakan oleh isteri kepada suaminya lebih baik dari isteri itu mengerjakan haji dan umrah.

c). Mandi junub si isteri yang disebabkan jimak oleh suaminya lebih baik baginya daripada mengorbankan 1,000 ekor kambing sebagai sedekah kepada fakir miskin.

d). Apabila isteri hamil ia dicatitkan sebagai seorang syahid dan khidmat kepada suaminya sebagai jihad.

e). Pemeliharaan yang baik terhadap anak-anak adalah menjadi benteng neraka, pandangan yang baik dan harmonis terhadap suami adalah menjadi tasbih (zikir).

f). Tidak akan putus ganjaran dari Allah kepada seorang isteri yang siang dan malamnya mengembirakan suaminya.

g). Apabila meninggal dunia seorang isteri dan suaminya redha, nescaya ia dimasukkan ke dalam syurga. (Hadis Riwayat Tarmizi)

h). Seseorag wanita apabila ia mengerjakan sembahyang yang difardhukan ke atasnya, berpuasa pada bulan Ramadhan, menjaga kehormatan dirinya dan taat kepada suaminya maka berhaklah ia masuk syurga dari mana-mana pintu yang ia suka.

Allahuakbar.... Pemurahnya Allah kepada hamba-hambanya :)

Very touching story...

Hi future teachers ! Do read this story as an inspiration. When you feel like you want to give up, DON'T

Was she a teacher or a mother?
There is a story many years ago of an elementary teacher. her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very firts day of school, she told the children a lie.Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.

But that was impossible, because there in front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs.Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and put Teddy's off until last. however, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote , "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh.He does his work neatly and has good manners. He is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother 's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but hos father doesn't show so much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote," Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interst in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. she felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag.

Mrs. Thompson took pains to pen it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. but she stifled the children's laughter when she claimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on his wrist.

Teddy stoddard stayed after school that day just enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. instead, she began to teach children.

Mrs. Thopmson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. the more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. by the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and , despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class,and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Four years after that, she got another latter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go little further. the letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was little longer - the letter was signed, Theodore F. Soddard, M.D.

The story doesn't end there. you see, there was yet another letter that spring. teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. he explained that his father died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Chirstmas together.

They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you, Mrs Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a different. "Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make difference. I didn't know how to teach un til I met you."